Aaron Anderson, LMFT

I am an expert marriage counselor with over 17 years of experience working with couples through various relationship difficulties. From infidelity to parenting to problems communicating, I can help you make your marriage better.

My therapy is pretty down-to-earth. I recognize that change doesn’t happen inside your comfort zone. In fact, staying in your comfort zone is probably what caused you and your partner to get into the challenges you’re having. As humans, we evolve and grow. Your relationship needs to evolve and adapt along with you. In therapy with me, I will help you and your spouse explore the unspoken rules that keep you both in your comfort zones and stuck in the same unhelpful patterns. You will get a better understanding of yourself and your partner by exploring the deeper, more core beliefs that you both have that are affecting your relationship. We will work on finding the ones causing you both to stumble and will help you co-create new ones with your partner that feels fulfilling and rewarding again. I will help you both to create new goals together as a couple that are exciting, vibrant, and passionate.

Because we work to go past your comfort zone and explore parts of you and your relationship you haven’t thought about before, my therapy can be a little bit challenging. I’m very nonjudgmental and supportive but doing that level of self-exploration can be tough. I have a strict 48-hour cancellation policy for this reason. It’s when you don’t want to come to counseling that is usually when the best work gets done.

If you’re seeing me for infidelity, we get right to work rebuilding trust first and foremost. We do this by getting to work controlling the damage and chaos that comes when an affair has been discovered. Then we begin to unpack why the affair happened and how to keep it from happening again. There was a reason the affair happened. You can’t look back to the old relationship because there were pieces of it that made your relationship vulnerable. So, I help you build a new relationship and leave those vulnerabilities behind. It’s not easy, but it’s worth it.