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Ciera Coyan Marriage and Family Therapist Associate in Washington
Ciera Coyan

Marriage and Family Therapist Associate

Online only

Free initial consultation

Accepting new clients

About me

I'm a sex and relationship therapist. I specialize in helping clients understand and heal their relationships, whether that be their romantic relationships, community relationships, or relationships with themselves.

I typically work with anxious, hyper-vigilant, perfectionistic, self critical people. People who can get exhausted by their own brains. People who are ready to step away from trying to problem solve and "fix" themselves. You are not a problem that needs to be solved. You're not broken, so there's nothing to fix. You are a person who deserves to be seen, understood, and loved.

Maybe you developed hyper-vigilance because you're neurodivergent in a world built for neurotypicals. Maybe you grew up in a high demand religion that taught you to exert intense control over yourself. Maybe you're a person living under the strain of systemic oppression. Whatever the reason, my goal is to help you move away from getting stuck in your thinking mind and instead drop into your full self. The self that includes your body, your messy and uncomfortable feelings, the parts of you that are wounded, the parts of you that are scary, the parts of you that carry shame. I'll help you look at all of these parts with understanding and compassion. It's from this place of acceptance that you can access not just reason and logic, but true wisdom. From here, you can create lasting, meaningful change.

This is true for individuals as well as for relationship clients (whether you're a couple or larger relationship constellation). We can't change what we can't acknowledge. If you're ready to do the courageous, messy, beautiful, work of getting to know your full self, please reach out to me to learn more about how we can work together.



Fees and insurance

Specialties and clinical interests

Therapy types

Community specialties

Faith-based specialties

Licensed to see clients in

Years in practice


Service types

  • Therapy / Counseling

Types of clients

  • Adults (18+)
  • Older Adults (65+)
  • Individuals
  • Couples


  • English

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